Mr. Radiance was very sweet tried to get me No. 5 pure parfum, but they sold him edp instead (this was at duty free at the Paris airport). I've been fighting back my disappointment and kicking myself for not being more clear with my language with him. I think I asked for pure parfum and that 1 ounce/30 ml was my highest wish, but that smaller sizes would be ok. I think he asked the SA for Chanel No. 5 "pure perfume" and he even questioned them when they gave him this 100 ml bottle of eau de parfum, and he said the lady was fussing at him, yes it's pure parfum, pure parfum!! I don't understand why they wouldn't even try to bring out a bottle of the extrait de parfum and try to make a bigger sale?
He's only bought me perfume himself one other time, and that was a limited edition Angel Mystic flacon around 5 years ago, and even then, he had several bad experiences with SA's around downtown Chicago before he found a helpful one at Bloomingdale's. I'm afraid this experience has probably made him less likely to want to buy me fragrances in the future

Back to No. 5 -- After a few hours yesterday, the edp smelled a lot like Samsara on my skin, and was so overwhelming to me. I was really looking forward to the parfum, and it laying closer to the skin -- the edp has a lot of sillage! Today, I tried it on the back of one knee, and while it still seems a bit strong to my nose, it's not as bad as having it on my wrists and neck. Maybe I need to spritz a cotton ball and dab? Maybe it's just a learning curve with a new scent? I was encouraged to read here and on MUA that edp version is preferred by some folks. I also liked the ideas of layering it with No. 19 and Coco. Still, I'm tempted to go searching the local stores to see if they have any No. 5 pure parfum that are labeled Made In France.